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Ask An OT: “What pencil grip should I use for my child?”

 

Question from Dena Rich in  Albany, NYdena(1)

 

“Hi Miss Jaime!  Love, love your articles!!!! My daughter Emilia still struggles with her pencil grip (using whole hand instead of proper 2 fingers). I’m having trouble finding a pencil gripper. Do I have to go to a parent teacher store? Love the tweezer separating sprinkles idea. Do u think this will be too hard for her?  She turns five in March. “

Hi Dena!  Thanks for the compliment!  You don’t need to go to a teacher store; you can buy anything online! Children who are four are often still developing a comfortable pencil grip.  It can be hard for children to develop separation of the two sides of the hand, but a pencil grip can help.  I usually try not to use a grip until I’m sure that the child is physically having difficulty.  That means that I have taught them many times where their fingers should go and where the pencil should sit in their hands.  When I ask them to hold the pencil correctly, they try to and they know what I mean.  The problem is that due to weak strength and endurance, they can’t maintain a proper grasp.  So then, I use a pencil grip.  My favorite “go-to” grip for preschoolers is called “the pencil grip”.  I like it because it’s “fatter” towards the back which helps kids to open up their web space.  This is the area between the thumb and the index finger.    There are specific spots for each finger, but even if they hold it wrong, it’s still ok.   Here is what it looks like.

Another good one that I like for kids Emilia’s age is the “writing claw”.  This one can be a little tricky to  learn how to use, but once a child gets the hang of it, it’s great.  There are spots for the thumb, index and middle fingers.

 

Pencil grips can be uncomfortable for children at first.  That’s ok, it’s uncomfortable because the child is now using the correct muscles, and they aren’t used to doing this work.  Keep encouraging them and use it consistently.  It will pay off!   Also, you can help your child to “tuck in” the ring and pinky finger by having them hold a pom pom or a cotton ball in those fingers.  It helps to keep the pinky side of the hand separate from the thumb part.

Another way to make is easier for your child is to play games and work with toys that require separation of the two sides of their hands.  Classic games like  Bed Bugs, Lite Brite, Operation, etc. are examples of toys that encourage this.

Good Luck, Dena!  Keep us posted!

 

  ~Miss Jaime

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Middle School and Handwriting

Middle School and Handwriting… how to help your child improve their legibility after elementary school

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Handwriting and Middle School – Part 1

So many parents lose hope for improving their child’s handwriting after elementary school.   It definitely can seem hopeless at times.  How do you change a habit that has been developed over so many years?   There’s always the old “kids don’t need to write anymore, they can just type”.

But seriously, that’s not realistic.  Everyone needs to be able to write legibly.  Even if it’s a quick note, a shopping list, an address.  How many times do you just need to jot something down?

A lot.   Working in a middle school, I learned many different tips and tricks for improving legibility.  So I’ve decide to share them with you. –

Please believe me – there IS hope for improving legibility after elementary school.  I swear. 

Pencil Grip – Forget about it?

It is very, very hard to change a poor pencil grip after the first grade.  On top of that,  it gets harder each year after first grade. By middle school, it is practically impossible.  The only way to change a child’s grip after the first/second grade is if the child is willing and motivated.  If not, you really have to consider if it’s worth the fight. I am a huge advocate for correcting grip and pencil habits in little ones because I have seen the repercussions of neglect.

It’s bad.

Children who don’t hold their pencil correctly are sometimes using the wrong muscles to write.  When you are writing, the thumb should be doing most of the work.  If you notice that the thumb isn’t even moving or bending at all, it isn’t doing any of the work.

Some kids are able to compensate by having the other fingers move the pencil.  Others (worst case scenario) are still relying on their wrist and shoulder because they haven’t developed shoulder stability. This habit should be gone by the end of kindergarten.


So…..back to middle school and handwriting.  The problem with a middle schooler who is using larger muscles (whole arm and wrist) to write is that it is extremely tiring.  Think about how hard it is to hold your arms up in the air (in a T) for a whole minute.  This is how your middle schooler feels.  Now add common core and all the writing.  Yikes. The result?  One word answers, the shortest sentences possible, and no data in your Document Based Questions (DBQ’S).   Middle schoolers are expected to back up their answers with “text based evidence”.  This means detail, information, and in other words – effort.   Can you put forth effort and motivation when you are exhausted?

Me neither.

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Middle School and Handwriting: What to do…

As I said before, if your child isn’t motivated or willing (or bribable) to change their grip, it probably won’t happen.  They will find ways to compensate in life down the road, which is good news.  As an Assistive Technology professional – I think it’s great that children have access to computers, Ipads, smartphones, etc.

As a Handwriting Specialist, it makes me worried.  In life, you need to be able to jot a note, make a list, etc.  But…technology is the wave of the future, and you better get on board or be left in the dust.  (That is my two sides fighting with each other).

WHen they aren’t Motivated…

So if they aren’t motivated, and they aren’t giving their best work because that involves too much writing, find another way.  Let them type their essays – notice I said, “let THEM type”. I know that parents are only trying to help, but kids need to do as much for themselves as possible.

First, even if they are only using one hand or one finger – they are gaining keyboard awareness. Trust me, in a few years, they will be moving much faster.

Second, typing is awesome fine motor work.  If they are using more than one hand or one finger, they are developing the ability to move one finger at a time! This would have been developed in Kindergarten if they had been holding their pencil properly.

Oh well. If your child truly isn’t capable of typing all their work, make a deal.  Set the timer for ten minutes and have them type. (It doesn’t matter if they type one sentence). Then you can help and type the rest.  Next week – eleven minutes. You get the picture.

When They ARE Motivated…

If they are motivated and willing,  have them use a slantboard to write on.  This will put their wrist in extension (bent upward), which promotes finger movement.  You can give them a pencil grip if they are willing to use it. Sometimes kids will use it because it is novel and anything new is cool.

Awesome.  If that is the case with your kid, change the color of the grip every week to keep them motivated.  It will take a few months before they can begin to break their pencil grasp habit.  Many children get frustrated because using a slantboard and/or a grip takes longer.

This is because they are using smaller muscles, making more precise movements.  Sometimes this makes messier handwriting at first because these tiny hand muscles aren’t used to writing. However, sometimes it leads to neater handwriting because your Speedy Gonzalez who hates writing and just wants to be done needs to slow down in order to get anything on the paper.  You know your child.  You need to pick your battles and focus on what is really important.  But my advice is to really try.  With a motivated kid, amazing things can happen.  If they are really trying and get tired, give them a break and go back to it. That’s ok. They are training for a marathon.  It takes time to gain endurance.

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Letter formation – is there hope in Middle School?

Not really.  This is another reason why I am such an advocate for proper handwriting instruction for preschool and kindergarten.  I once had a kindergarten teacher say to me “but it’s kindergarten”.  This was because I was letting a child’s mom know that the child was making the lowercase letter “a” incorrectly and to please remind her at home.

( This sounds so type A of me.  However, it is part of my job to try to get parents to follow through with what the teachers are teaching all day long. Many parents have absolutely no idea if their child is forming letters correctly.  That’s Ok – they have an OT in the building who will gladly keep them posted. )  In my defense,  the child had two lowercase a‘s (Anabella) in her name. She had already been doing the letter in class and in her workbook with her classmates.

Plus writing it ten times a day on the top of her worksheets.  Is it a big deal? No.  Is it correct?  No.  If a child isn’t corrected and taught the correct formation, that’s it.  They will not magically wake up in the sixth grade and write this letter differently. ( In fairness, the kindergarten teacher had been in “kindergarten land” for a long time, and has probably never seen the ramifications down the road of letting little things slide.)

Who cares?

Good question.

If I can read it when she is in the sixth grade, I don’t care.  But, if that child is now so comfortable that she is writing quickly and her letter “a”  looks like an  “o l”,  then I care!  This will impact her on a spelling test, job interview forms, writing an address on an envelope, etc.  So, I will make the effort to let a parent know if their 5-year-old child needs a little practice with something.  Some habits are really tough to break. Of course, Kindergarten used  to be all about “reading, writing, and arithmetic.”  That was before Common Core. The “writing” part has definitely slipped in the ranks!

So how do you make it easier to read?

So here is the good news. There is still hope.  I worked with Middle School Special Ed Children for about five years.  Most of them had classifications of Learning Disabled, Speech and Language Impairments,  and Other Health Impaired.  Many of them had very poor handwriting.  Most of them did want neater writing, but really disliked writing (because it was hard).  So, rather than focus on letter formation, directionality, and other habits that are very hard to break, I focused on the things that I could change.

Change the paper.

One of the most successful accommodations for my children in middle school with poor handwriting was to change the paper. Usually, this meant giving them Narrow Ruled or College lined loose-leaf paper.  Many parents and teachers are baffled by this –

“they can barely write as it is… now you are making it smaller?”

YES.  Less room means less mess. Smaller lines can mean smaller letters.  This is especially true for children who have visual-motor issues.  Many of them automatically adapt their letter sizing to fit in between the smaller lines.  This also limits those “extra” lines and “tails” on some of the letters.  When you give them the paper, teach them to skip lines.

Although this may seem “immature” to skip lines when writing, it really improves legibility.  If you need to, you can highlight every other line for while, or put an “x” or a dot to help your children see which line to go to next.  Trust me, it really does make it easier to read.  My favorite “narrow-lined” paper is  Handwriting Without Tears Double Line Narrow Paper.  It already has big spaces in between the lines.

Handwriting Without Tears Narrow Lined Paper is my favorite…

 

Then try to help them space.

Redispace paper has “start” and “stop” margins and dashed to separate letters

Even if the letters in a word are messy, if one word is separate from another, it is automatically easier to read.   So, once your student has learned to decrease the size of their writing, you can work on spacing.  You can try using graph paper (one letter per box, two spaces per space, etc.)  There is also specific “spacing paper” that looks like looseleaf with tiny lines to help you space each letter. You can buy it at staples or office max. It’s called RediSpace Transitional Paper by Mead.   There is actually a green margin on the left and a red “stop” sign at the right.  Some children who have difficulty adhering to the margin may benefit from the color.

Middle school children may feel  “too old” to finger space, but you can give them a popsicle stick or even have them use a pencil to space in between their words.  Another great trick is to use the Post-it® Page Markers  as a spacer.  It is sticky so the kids can move it just like they would with a popsicle stick or their finger.  However, it is more “mature” looking for your very “cool” teens who could never be seen using their finger.  I have found that once they start writing smaller, they seem to space better.  Like I said, most children “want” neat handwriting.  So when they see that something helps, they become motivated. I think that is why the “College lined” paper helps with spacing.

 

popsicle spacing

A popsicle stick is a great “quick fix” for a spacer

Post it Page markers

These “page markers” from Post It are my personal favorite

Colored margins

Colored margins are great for kids who need visual cues for spacing.

 

 

                This is what Meade Redispace paper looks like. Sometimes it works wonders.  

Work the  “grown- up” factor

I have to admit that I have spoken to my more mature and “wordly” middle school children about how this paper is what “college kids” use and how they will be in college some day.  I have showed different writing samples to kids and asked them what grade they thought the student was in.  I had one girl that was such a “teenager” – very cool.  But her handwriting was so large and bubbly that it looked like an elementary school student.  I showed her two samples – a typical eighth grader with small, neat handwriting, and a handwriting very similar to hers – large, no spaces, &  bubbly.  I asked her what grade she thought the kids were in.  She realized that the smaller, neater handwriting was an older child.  As a very “cool” girl, she wanted to have more “mature” handwriting too.

Voila – it was the actual “awareness” and motivation that changed her handwriting.  Not her physical ability.

Middle School and Handwriting….Is there hope?   YES!

Be sure to check out part 2 of Middle School and Handwriting! You can read it here…

How to Improve Horrendous Handwriting When All Hope Is LostMiddle School and Handwriting

Did you love these tips and tricks?  Be sure to check out “The Handwriting Book”, written by myself and a team of nine other pediatric OT’s and PT’s. It is full of wonderful strategies to use at home or in the classroom!

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Do you have any other great tips to share with my readers? Please let us know if you have any other great tricks that help!   ~Miss Jaime, OT            

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Scissors tricks- 5 tips to help your child

 

5 Tricks to help your  child with cutting

1.   Thumbs up for good cutting!  

Teach your child that  “thumbs up” means “good job”. Then, show them that in order to cut properly, both hands should be “thumbs up” or “thumbs on top”. Most parents don’t realize that their child is”thumbs down” on the hand that holds the paper.

In order to have the best control, both thumbs should be facing up.

 2.  Elbows in!

Many children use their whole arm when they only need their hands. This is a sign that they are still developing shoulder stability.  You’ll notice that they may stick their elbow out,  instead of keeping it stable by their body. This is a sign that they are compensating for weak upper body strength and stability.  You can help this along by having your child spend more time on their belly when reading or doing puzzles, etc.  In the meantime when they are cutting, remind them “elbows tucked in”.  This will give them better control.

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3.  Right side up! 

If your child consistently forgets to hold the scissors right side up with their thumb in the little hole, make it fun by drawing a face on their thumb or their thumbnail before they begin cutting.  Tell them that the thumb is the bus driver.  He sits in the front seat (small window)  by himself.  The rest of the fingers are the kids, they sit in the back together.  Most kids like this trick.

If they still have trouble after a few times, you can also try gluing or drawing eyes on the “little hole”.  This way, when your little one picks up the scissors, the eyes are “watching him”.  Hot glue does not last very long on plastic, but that’s ok! Hopefully, by the time the googly eyes fall off, your child will have developed the proper habit.

4. The writing hand is the cutting hand!

Children should have developed their hand dominance by the time they are four.  However, sometimes they may still switch for certain activities.  With scissors, I find that lefties often switch to “righty” to cut because the blades of typical scissors work better when cutting with the right hand. (Most lefty scissors have the blades reversed – who knew!?)  Some parents buy their child a lefty scissors to make it easier.  I highly suggest this!

But they may still switch hands.

If your child is switching hands, encourage them to use their dominant hand.  If you aren’t sure whether they are lefty or righty,  watch which hand they use to pick up their fork, crayon, or a toy.   Place objects in the middle of their body and see which hand they prefer.  Once your child has chosen a hand, encourage that hand for cutting, coloring, and using a fork.   One tip to help them remember is to use a tattoo!  Put a removable tattoo on your child’s dominant hand as a “reminder”.  Kids love tattoos and it’s an easy fix.

 


 5.  Get those muscles strong! 

One of the reasons that cutting is difficult for children is that they have to separate the two sides (pinky and thumb) of their hand.  This is hard work, and sometimes hard work is NOT fun.  If your little guy gets frustrated with cutting, work on their hand strength with other activities that work the same muscles.  This way, the muscles are getting stronger while your child is having fun doing something “different”.  Here are some simple everyday activities that develop separation of the two sides of the hand:

1) Fill an empty spray bottle with water and let your children spray the plants, the car, the chalk off the driveway!

2) Bring it to the beach or the pool and let your children spray you, themselves, or each other when they get hot!

3)  Same goes for old fashioned (trigger style) water guns.

4) Use your old tweezers to pick up beans, beads, or anything small.

5) Use Spaghetti  Tongs to pick up all the dirty laundry (or anything else) off the floor.

5) Use an old sock to make a sock puppet – draw a mouth and a face so your child practices “opening and shutting” the mouth as he talks.

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The “Scissor Skills Book” is the ultimate guide to scissor skills. Learn about developmental progression, how to encourage pre-cutting skills, how to help children with poor motor skills, and much more.

Hope these simple tricks help you to help your child with the tough task of learning how to cut!  Good Luck!

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~Miss Jaime, O.T.

 

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